This post is more of a message than an article. On a daily basis I must receive anywhere between 5-10 requests from people asking about love spells. Some I will take on board, but in all honesty, most I won’t.
I am choosy in what kind of “love spell” work I do for people because you must understand that when your life gets tough you can’t always crumble and think that someone else will come along, wave a magic wand and everything will be peachy. We are ALL set challenges in this life, including myself, which are there to make us stronger.
I am more than happy to take on board work for couples who are still in a relationship or living under the same roof, this is different because the actual separation has not occurred yet and is more natural to connect the bond back you once had. I am also more than happy to provide spells to make you appear more attractive and magnetic and entice a new lover or your old one back. However, I will NEVER put a love spell on someone else. The reason is because there is no guarantee that a love spell will last a lifetime. Everyone is different and certain emotional triggers can break a love spell in seconds.
This is an example of why love should happen naturally and from your loved ones OWN intention and emotion:
1) A love spell is cast on someone you fancy. 20 years later you have a family, house, security. One day your spouse wakes up and thinks “what the hell am I doing here, I don’t love this person” and they suddenly up and leave to fulfil their original destiny and fate. But what if YOU wake up and realise you want out? What happens to the person under the spell? They will probably never be able to love again and will most likely need therapy for the rest of their lives. Is that really what you want to risk?
2 *my way*) A love spell is cast on YOU. Your aura becomes a magnet and you glow with this inner shine and attraction. The person you fancy will more often than not feel this vibe coming from you and they will NATURALLY fall in love with you. Once they are attracted to you, they can learn to get to know you and love you truly from their heart, not based on a spell.
Mostly it is women wanting back their straying boyfriend or husband but in all honesty it is against my morals and ethics to put a love spell on a guy who has clearly made up his mind to be with someone else. I AM able to help you through the emotional pain with meditation exercises and Shamanic healing and also improve your aura to make it more attractive, however, you will be attractive to many, not just the person you want back.
Alternatively, depending on the email I receive, I might reply with a “kick up the bum” suggestion, which I feel you might benefit from in the form of a pep talk. You probably won’t like what I say but if I feel a spell is not right for you at this time and I believe you have a chance to solve the issue yourself I will tell it to you straight. If you are concerned by my reply then don’t contact me. I am honest, straight talking and won’t beat around the bush. If I think something should be said you can be sure I’ll say it.
Too many people tend to wallow in self pity and depression when relationships go wrong and sit at home waiting for the phone to ring and hope their loved ones suddenly appear back on their doorstep. Unfortunately, too many women let themselves become dependant on their guys and they feel their world has crashed around them if their partners up and leave, especially when they are left with false hopes and empty promises. I can fully understand and appreciate just how hard and upsetting this can be, however, instead of sitting there becoming inactive, you need to take control of the situation and become proactive.
If you want your man back, then don’t just sit there and put up with being a doormat, get out and do something! Pull out all the stops to get your loved one back (and sometimes you have to do things that will seem mean and will be hard to do) and only as a last resort THEN seek spells or universal intervention. However, what usually happens is during this time, the hurt and sadness turns to anger, the anger then turns into action (NOT REVENGE!) and then usually your loved one will come running back or you will naturally heal and you can move on with your life.
At the end of the day, you don’t need to take crap from anyone. If you are unhappy then change your life – I have done it myself on more than one occasion and maybe the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, but how do you know if you don’t even give it a go? You might not be able to jump back, but you can certainly keep moving forward 🙂
Life is for living. Look after yourself because we are all born an individual, don’t lose your identity and forget who you are. We are all beautiful people and life is to be enjoyed to the fullest.